g spot

I've been with my husband for 4 years, and we've been married for one. When we fist started doing "stuff", as I call it, well he cared about my pleasure and getting me there and whatever but, ever since we started having sex, that's like 3 years ago, or more, he just cares about him, he doesn't try to turn me on, he just wants to get inside me and that's it and expect me to get turned on like that. I've tried to orgasm, but I can't, he tells me to touch myself but I'm not turned on enough.

Hi. I just read everything I could about the gspot on your site and I am still confused! I am 35, have had sex with about ten different men, and have only felt one guy ever touch this area with his penis during intercourse. When he did, I felt so much pressure on my bladder, not just a feeling of having to pee, but of having to pee while having someone punch me in the bladder! It was not enjoyable at all and I had to have him stop. He was very long and I never had anyone ever reach that spot again.

Is it possible that my gspot is further back than normal? Am I too sensitive to having it rubbed, or is it something that you have to get used to? I admit I have tried to find the gspot myself, alone, to practice, and I can't find it!

Is this gspot all it's cracked up to be? Am I  missing out? Does it just not work on some people? I have great clitoral orgasms and enjoy sex, but I'd love to enjoy it even more if possible. thx!