Sex Positions

This is not your normal encyclopedic sex positions page (there are plenty of those on the web) but some lesser-used sex positions which lend themselves well to female pleasure, especially so the man can stroke her clitoris.

The standard missionary position is probably the worst sex position for clit stroking. Positions where the woman is on top or side to side usually give better access to the clitoris - the most effective and reliable way to give a woman sexual pleasure and orgasm. Also at the end are a couple of good positions for stroking her G-spot. We begin with a great position for intensified sensations for sex and clit stroking, Chair sex!

 

Chair Sex Facing and Chair Sex Reverse

Chair Sex Facing. Black and white pencil shaded picture of a man and woman having sex while he strokes her clitoris. The man sits on a chair while the woman sits astride, facing him.     Chair Sex Reverse. Black and white pencil shaded picture of a man and woman having sex while he strokes her clitoris. The man sits on a chair while the woman sits astride, facing away from him.

 

Woman on Top Kneeling

Woman on Top Kneeling. Black and white pencil shaded picture of a man and woman having sex while he strokes her clitoris. The man lies face up on a bed while the woman kneels astride, facing him.

 

Woman on Top Kneeling Reverse

Woman on Top Kneeling Reverse. Black and white pencil shaded picture of a man and woman having sex while he strokes her clitoris. The man lies face up on a bed while the woman kneels astride, facing away from him.

 

Woman on Top Crouching

Woman on Top Crouching. Black and white pencil shaded picture of a man and woman having sex while he strokes her clitoris. The man lies face up on a bed while the woman sits astride him, crouching and facing towards him.

 

Woman on Top Crouching Reverse

Woman on Top Crouching Reverse. Black and white pencil shaded picture of a man and woman having sex while he strokes her clitoris. The man lies face up on a bed while the woman sits astride him, crouching and facing away from him.

 

Dancefloor Clit Stroker / Dry sex

Not a 'sex' position exactly but a great position for clit action. Can be done naked at home or on the dancefloor fully clothed. The couple dance close together with legs intertwined. The man lifts his thigh slightly between the woman's legs. She then presses her pubic bone against his thigh and strokes her clit up and down against him. Fantastic for female pleasure and can easily result in female orgasm. When done with clothes on, in any position, it's also called 'dry sex'.

 

Dance floor clit stroker 1. Black and white pencil shaded picture of a man dancing together, facing each other, with clothes on. The man's thigh is lifted slightly while the woman strokes her clit, through clothes, along his thigh.                    Dance floor clit stroker 2. Black and white pencil shaded picture of a man dancing together, facing each other, with clothes on. The man's thigh is lifted slightly while the woman strokes her clit, through clothes, along his thigh.

 

 

The X-Position

This is where the man lies on his back, facing upwards. The woman lies on top of him, also facing upwards. She lies at an angle to him, so that her head, shoulders and feet rest on the bed, but her butt rests on him to make sex easy and comfortable.

The X-position. Black and white
 pencil shaded picture of a man and woman having sex while he strokes 
her clitoris. The man lies on his back, facing upwards. The woman lies 
on top of him, also facing upwards. She lies at an angle to him, so that
 her head, shoulders and feet rest on the bed, but her butt rests on him
 to make sex easy and comfortable.

 

Raised X-Position

This one is similar to the X-Position but the woman raises herself up to get more pressure on her g-spot.

The Raised X-position. Black and white pencil shaded picture of a naked man and woman having sex while he strokes her clitoris. Side view. The man lies on his back, facing upwards. The woman lies on top of him, also facing upwards, but now her back and shoulders are raised up.

 

G-spot stroking positions

These are some positions not for sex but great for stroking and massaging a woman's G-spot. The missionary position lends itself well to the 'come here' two finger G-spot stroke. But the doggy position can be more pleasurable. The woman's hips are pushed back and her entire pelvic area is squashed so that her G-spot pushes out further into the vagina. This makes the G-spot easier to find and massage.

 

G-spot massage in the missionary position. Black and white pencil shaded picture of a naked man and woman. She lies on a bed on her back, with her hips and knees bent at 90 degrees. He kneels below her legs. His hand tentatively strokes her G-spot inside her vagina.

 

G-spot massage in the doggy position. Black and white line diagram showing a woman kneeling in the doggy position. The man kneels upright behind her. His thumb is inserted (face down) into her vagina and is stroking her G-spot (which is facing upwards).

 

Once you're done trying all those sex positions, you can comment on this article below, or ask any sex question in the forum.


Comments

someone please answer ASAP.

i need to know how to get an orgasm quickly, so what do i do? i mean the site says that i can do it by rubbing my clit or massaging my g-spot but how do i know that it'll be an orgasm? what does an orgasm feel like? how long do orgasms last?how do i try to give myself a longlasting orgasm? NEED HELP ASAP.

I just started having sex..And me adn my boyfreind only does the common ways to..I wish there were easier non complicated ways to..

I'm assumng your a woman, so first of all calm down, breath and relax. You can get an orgasm, but if this is the first time, and you intend to give it to yourself, it will not be fast. Play with yourself, use lubrication (Kama Sutra's silicone based are best) use a sex toy, a g-sopt toy, vibrator, your fingers or anything handy.

There are two types of orgams, the clitoral ogasm and g spot orgasm. The clitoris is on the outside of your vagina, near your labia on the top under your foreskin or "hood." Rub that section of your body, in any way that feels good, use saliva or lube and often vaginal or oral stimulation can help. It might take some time before you have an orgasm but you will know when you do. It can last from 10 seconds to about 1 minute, depending on your own body. You will often feel like you have to pee, that's ok, but you will not pee, it's just all the fluid built up in your body, similar to a male ejaculation. You will know because your muscles will contract, your toes might curl, your stomach and kegal muscles will tighten. For every woman it's different. My honest advice is to play with yourself, don't be shy, figure out what feels good for you, and just roll with it.  It will be intense the first few times, but ride it out, it will be worth it and you will know when your having an orgasm. Hope this helps! :)

Orgasms take about 4 seconds - depending on how long foreplay was, masturbating or having actual sex. You'll know when you get there!

My shot at describing:

Very hot yet tingling sensation around your sensitive parts, an unstoppable urge to hold your breath, some spasms of pleasure. It also releases some kind of very happy or funny feeling - like you just laughed very hard.

 

How to is something I am not an expert on since I am male. But you can find that perfectly on this site, as I just noticed!