Sex Positions
After you've spent some practising stroking her clitoris, you might want to try it during sex. Some positions lend themselves well to this, some don't. Here's some good ones:
The X-Position
This is where the man lies on his back, facing upwards. The woman lies on top of him, also facing upwards. She lies at an angle to him, so that her head, shoulders and feet rest on the bed, but her butt rests on him to make sex easy and comfortable. Click the diagram to enlarge:
Raised X-Position
This one is similar to the X-Position but the woman raises herself up to get more tension on her g-spot.
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someone please answer ASAP.
i need to know how to get an orgasm quickly, so what do i do? i mean the site says that i can do it by rubbing my clit or massaging my g-spot but how do i know that it'll be an orgasm? what does an orgasm feel like? how long do orgasms last?how do i try to give myself a longlasting orgasm? NEED HELP ASAP.
I just started having sex..And me adn my boyfreind only does the common ways to..I wish there were easier non complicated ways to..
I'm assumng your a woman, so first of all calm down, breath and relax. You can get an orgasm, but if this is the first time, and you intend to give it to yourself, it will not be fast. Play with yourself, use lubrication (Kama Sutra's silicone based are best) use a sex toy, a g-sopt toy, vibrator, your fingers or anything handy.
There are two types of orgams, the clitoral ogasm and g spot orgasm. The clitoris is on the outside of your vagina, near your labia on the top under your foreskin or "hood." Rub that section of your body, in any way that feels good, use saliva or lube and often vaginal or oral stimulation can help. It might take some time before you have an orgasm but you will know when you do. It can last from 10 seconds to about 1 minute, depending on your own body. You will often feel like you have to pee, that's ok, but you will not pee, it's just all the fluid built up in your body, similar to a male ejaculation. You will know because your muscles will contract, your toes might curl, your stomach and kegal muscles will tighten. For every woman it's different. My honest advice is to play with yourself, don't be shy, figure out what feels good for you, and just roll with it. It will be intense the first few times, but ride it out, it will be worth it and you will know when your having an orgasm. Hope this helps! :)
Orgasms take about 4 seconds - depending on how long foreplay was, masturbating or having actual sex. You'll know when you get there!
My shot at describing:
Very hot yet tingling sensation around your sensitive parts, an unstoppable urge to hold your breath, some spasms of pleasure. It also releases some kind of very happy or funny feeling - like you just laughed very hard.
How to is something I am not an expert on since I am male. But you can find that perfectly on this site, as I just noticed!
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