Which sex problem concerns you most?

Posted Mon, 04/28/2008 - 00:41 by infosex

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by Anon - 08/31/2009 - 07:45

Well I am 27years old ad have been sexually actve since i have been 13 i know thats young but that is beside the point..I have never had or orgasm or even came during sexula inter course or oral sex..wut can i do about this problem..

by Anon - 01/24/2009 - 21:08

I'm a 40 yr old woman, thought I was sexually experienced, JUST discovered the gspot, WOWOWOWOW. What else have I been missing!? Is there something similar I can lay on the man?

by Anon - 01/03/2009 - 11:37

I'm worried that I won't be able to satisfy her.

by Anon - 12/19/2008 - 02:23

I worry that either i'm not good enough or theres something wrong with me

by Anon - 07/22/2008 - 19:00

My husband doesnt seem interested in sex with me ! i consider myself an attractive woman,if we have sex is because i iniciate it! and i know he is not cheating on me!
whats is wrong with him? i wear sexy clothes etc to wake his interests ,but NOTHING any advice?

by Anon - 02/27/2010 - 22:38

Shyness can go very deep. Otherwise?   modesty. Really, I've had a girlfriend once, with whom I almost lost my virginity, and I barely initiated 1 kiss, now that I look back at it.

by Anon - 12/14/2008 - 16:04

I was on the other side of this. My wife is hot as hell and I'm fairly horny, but I didn't initiate sex much and she thought I didn't want her.

1) I'm just a busy, ambitious guy so my mind was on other things. I started reading about sex a lot and now I'm really horny all the time (I'm planning to start a sex store, it's actually been good for our sex life). He might try that.
2) She likes it at night more and I like it in the morning more. I'm sleepy at night and sex takes a lot of energy from the guy, much more than from the woman. Imagine you're sleepy then have to give a long massage, then lots of foreplay, then please her. The process can take a couple of grueling hours.
3) Fights and stress were also sometimes an issue. We (men) don't need to feel loved to be horny, but bad emotions make us prefer masturbation or just not want any stimulation at all. Note that fights about sex are particularly bad because I remember them when I think about initiating sex.
4) I try to never masturbate. That means I want her all the time, but as a tradeoff, I get frustrated when she won't have sex with me.

by marietta - 09/25/2008 - 16:30

If he was a former drug user or drinks frequently, then you have an answer. My former husband was a druggie and he just had me as his trophy until I got fat and ugly.

by Anon - 08/08/2008 - 16:39

he might be scared of it....and he might be scared of his sexuality..he might be in deep thought as to whether he fancies you or the man down the road! ;)

by Anon - 05/11/2008 - 19:48

my wife likes sex when we wake up instead of night time.

by Anon - 05/26/2008 - 13:56

So whats the problem? Wake up an hour earlier and go for it. Sex in the morning is usually more spontaneous and gratifying. If waking up an hour earlier is an issue, try going to sleep an hour earlier. Ask yourself this question, would you rather watch some dumb TV show for an extra hour or wake up to good sex with your wife before going off to work in the morning.