first timer

So i had sex with my girlfriend and we both lost the "v-card" i was wondering is it normal for it to hurt for her the first time and will it hurt again the next time or does the hurting just go away? thanks for this site its great!

The hymen is a small piece of flesh that goes across the vaginal opening which breaks during a first sexual encounter (or can be broken while horseriding or other activities). So this is why it hurt, and sometimes there can be blood. But it shouldn't hurt after this, although make sure you use a lot of foreplay to make sure she is ready.