is she sexually satisfied with foreplay and oral?

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rampage1990
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Hello! I'm 18 years old, i lost my virignity about 2 months ago to a lady who is the love of my life Smile. we do

foreplay and sometimes intercourse, 2 maybe 3 times a week. theres one problem. i'm struggling to know if she

enjoys foreplay and oral sex. she shows no sign of enjoyment whatsoever, and i have asked her if she does

enjoy it, she said shes happy with it. but theres no sign of it! Frown i read on one of the posts that some dont show

their enjoyment. however during intercourse (loving the lotus position Tongue out) she was breathing heavily and had

her head facing down to the bed, i immediatley took this as a good sign, this happens everytime, even my first 

time and i hope that's something to be proud of Smile.

i havent yet given an orgasm, but hopefully soon.

 

i would really appreciate any answers, help and/or advice 

infosex
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rampage1990 wrote:
Hello! I'm 18 years old, i lost my virignity about 2 months ago to a lady who is the love of my life Smile.

congratulations!

 

rampage1990 wrote:
we do foreplay and sometimes intercourse, 2 maybe 3 times a week. theres one problem. i'm struggling to know if she enjoys foreplay and oral sex.
She shows no sign of enjoyment whatsoever, and i have asked her if she does enjoy it, she said shes happy with it. but theres no sign of it! i read on one of the posts that some dont show their enjoyment.

Well yep as mentioned elsewhere, there is a huge variation in how women respond sexually. Some scream the house down, some make no noise, and everything in between. There is no right or wrong way to respond.

Here's a simple tip: if she asks you to stop, or pushes you away, she's not enjoying it. Otherwise, you can assume she likes it and wants you to keep going.

 

rampage1990 wrote:
however during intercourse (loving the lotus position Tongue out)

Who was in the lotus position? You? Her? Both?

 

rampage1990 wrote:
she was breathing heavily and had her head facing down to the bed, i immediatley took this as a good sign, this happens everytime, even my first time and i hope that's something to be proud of Smile. i havent yet given an orgasm, but hopefully soon.

That is a good sign.

For an orgasm (or simply lots of sexual pleasure) you should try stroking her clit. This is usually the quickest, most reliable way of giving a woman an orgasm. Then try her G-spot. Some women respond better to the clit, some to the G-spot.

 

rampage1990
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thank you a lot.

 

we were both in the lotus (i think lol) i was sat and her sat on me with her legs behind me

 

ive also found the right speed of the clit massaging! im happy with that!

 

again thankyou Smile

rampage1990
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also ive talked with her about playing some 'games', she hasnt played any before and i havnt either... do you have any suggestions?

infosex
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rampage1990 wrote:
also ive talked with her about playing some 'games', she hasnt played any before and i havnt either... do you have any suggestions?

Depends what you mean by games but the only limit is your imagination. There are lots of roleplaying and meeting as strangers games you can play. Try the foreplay section.

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