Nervous but ready, got a few questions.

right now i am currently in a relationship and feel the same way. I am unsure of if im doing things right or if its pleasing or not. Right in the beginning of me and my bf's relationship I set the record straight(and its never to late to do this) I said " now while we r fooling around, or afterward, i would like you to tell me if i did it the way he likes or not or if theres anything i can do to make it better." I would like to say to you is that im really happy that your not pressuring her into sex yet. It is very stressful for women and for men too im sure. Technically, there is no way to answer your questions, there is no right or wrong way of things, just like making out, you have to get used to each others styles and techniques. You can do what ever your comfortable with. Also, ask her if shes ok with it and if you could do anything to help her feel better. But you'll know when to start having sex, you could wait till she says it but if shes not open enough then after the first or second orgasm(depending on if shes quick or not) then you just kinda move in slowly to make sure she knows what your doing and make sure shes ok with it. Now with the moaning thing, you should talk to her about that after you find out if she is or isnt a moaner. If she is then tell her you think its hot but don't fake it. If she isnt then just say so since you dont really moan, i cant tell if your enjoying what im doing or not so i would like to know if you are enjoying it, plus i do like it when a girl moans. The reason you would say that is because mabey she's insecure with her being to loud or whatnot. So to help yourself out deffinatly talk to your girl, but if your uncomfortable with talking about it(like me and my bf were) we just txted eacher and talked about it through messaging on facebook. I really do hope i helped you so do respond back saying if you do need more information. Have fun = )