G=Spot pain?
When my boyfriend and I have sex, especially when I'm on top or doggy-style, I sometimes feel some pain, I'm not sure if it's good or bad though.
When you are going to have a g-spot orgasm, is there some pain, or is it just pressure?
I can't seem to find any info on this, and any help would be great!
Thanks
Kind of a dull and sharp pain...? I haven't had any operations or surgery, no.
Is it that's he's in too deep?
The g-spot is about 2 to 3 inches inside the vagina so the pain can't be caused by going in too deep.
Do you feel the pain right at the end of your vagina?
I am currently on business travel and my wife and I had phone sex lastnight. So she tried the G-Spot massage for the first time to have a vaginal orgasm. We experience clitoral orgasms on a regular basis. We followed the instructions on your website, and she discovered the "i have to pee feeling." She remained relax and did not suppress the feeling. However, she said the pee feeling was so strong she had to stop. Was she right there at climax and stopped? What should she have done? I think she was nervous of the reaction. Maybe when I return, she will be more relaxed!! What do you think?
It's good that you've got that far, that means you've got the G-spot massage part right.
It can be difficult to get around the pee feeling. Many women when they are young and first start having sex, do experience these feelings but learn to suppress them for fear of peeing ... but again, she won't pee because the path from the bladder is blocked.
It really is a mental / psychological barrier, almost an 'embarrasment' barrier, not a physical one.
So maybe the best way is to put a couple of towels down and for you both to accept the fact that if she does pee, it doesn't matter, so it's ok to let it go.
Hopefully this will help her overcome the barrier ... but what will come out is female ejaculate, not pee.
Pain is bad. You shouldn't feel pain while doing g-spot massage or any sex activity (unless you want the pain, but that's another story...)
Where exactly do you feel the pain? Is it like a dull pain from a bruise, or a sharp pain from a cut?
Have you recently had any surgery or operations?
If the pain during sex continues, you should see a doctor.