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Golden shower
Sun, 03/22/2009 - 20:07
I know this may sound weird and maybe gross to some, but I've had a particular fantasy for a long time. And that is that I'd like to be on the receiving end of a golden shower. I'd like to ask my wife if she would pee on me and even into my mouth. I'm not sure why I have this fantasy or even how common it is, but thinking about it really turns me on. I fantasize about it all the time. She is aware of my fantasy, but we've only briefly discussed it. Her comment was that she'd have to be drunk and even then might not want to do it.
So my question is, does anyone have this fantasy? Has anyone received a golden shower, and if so, how did you like it? Finally, how did you talk to your partner about this.
Thanks eveyone.
Wed, 04/15/2009 - 22:28
#2
Oh gosh! It's just pee! Don't try to psychoanalyze that fantasy Freud! Do u know that a lot of ppl who don't enjoy the pee smell engage in golden shower activities? Did u know that saliva is a more dangerous substance than pee? Wuts really unhealthy is not enjoying a fantasy because prickish old-fashioned attitudes towards sex.
Sun, 04/19/2009 - 00:31
#3
I feel you. I don't neccessarily just want to hop up and pee on someone, or get peed on myself, but if it ever happened in bed i honestly would not care. I'd be upset about putting my sheets in the wash, but still...
Fri, 05/01/2009 - 12:21
#4
this however is abnormal and extremely unhealthy.
Fri, 05/01/2009 - 12:23
#5
only perverts do that
Mon, 05/11/2009 - 02:00
#6
i so agree. daaamn getting peed on? daymmmn!
Fri, 05/15/2009 - 23:20
#7
Whatever tickles your pickle! have fun!!!
Sat, 05/16/2009 - 20:24
#8
Pee is actually a rather sterile fluid, far from dangerous. Most people just associate it with being dirty, since you're always taught to piss in the toilet. Pee is mostly just slightly-acidic water. For more information: http://vanilla-not.com/fetishlinks/wet.html
Scat -- good ol' #2 -- is an entirely different story, though. That stuff has high amounts of potentially infectious bacteria.
Mon, 05/25/2009 - 14:00
#9
My boy and I piss on each other all the time, mostly in the shower. The sensation of his warm fluid jetting against my clit is orgasm worthy, it's a different stronger feeling than when he comes against my clit. And on ther occasions, he'll sit on the bottom of the shower and I stand over him and piss right onto his member, it drives him wild, he comes almost instantly jerking himself off while I soak him face and body and member in my pee and juices.
Your wife just needs to feel how hot it is! Maybe she could try reading some erotic novels about it, pee play goes WAY back! It's always been a big turn on. It's not sick it's just making use of your fluids. You come, you sweat, you pee, you salivate...peeing is just such a turn on because it comes from our sex organs! And its just water and unused vitamins!
Fri, 06/19/2009 - 02:13
#10
Ive always been interested in pissing activities. Im looking for a sex partner and one that shares the interest I have of incorporating pissing in all sexual activities. Ive always enjoyed the smell of dried piss.
Any way thanks for your mature remarks . They are refreshing.
Sat, 06/20/2009 - 05:08
#11
im personnally not into that, but honestly it doesnt matter what anyone else thinks or says. you should just talk to ur wife about it more. all that matters is you and her. if she wants to try it then do it. if she doesn't then respect her.
Wed, 07/22/2009 - 14:57
#12
I'm a very normal, college educated professional guy with a very normal wonderful wife. I have that fantassy all the time. Once When my wife was sitting on me, she suggested peeing on me. We didn't do it because we didn't have protection for the bedclothes and matress. I'm planning on bringing the subject up again soon. Glad to know there are others out there with the same fantassies. I hear it's a very common thing.
Fri, 07/31/2009 - 02:25
#13
comments 
Fri, 07/31/2009 - 16:58
#14
Hi,
I was so happy when I found your post: I've been having a similar problem. I've been seeing this couple, and the guy asked me to pee on him. He has asked his wife, and she really isn't into it, but I decided to try it. To answer your questions in order
1) I have never had this fantasy, but one of my partners (I'm in a threesome with a couple) has.
2) I have recieved a golden shower, and I have given one. Honestly, it was sooooo much better than i expected. The feeling when he aimed his stream at me was incredible. It took me a few minutes to actually be able to pee on him (a little gun shy I suppose) but once I got going, he loved it. The sensation of a small, hot, stream being aimed on your most private parts is quite fantastic. One tip: do it in the bathtub. It is not the most romantic place, but it works the best for clean up. bonus: the cold of the tub contrasts nicely with the heat of the shower.
3) He brought it up first by asking if there was anything i wanted to try, promising nothing was to weird or out there. After i explained what I wanted, I asked what he wanted. It took a little while for him to open up, it is a hard thing to ask for, and kudos to both of you for asking. It takes a lot of courage to ask for something that is seen as a sexual taboo. I told him I would try it, because I'll try almost anything twice. He was great helping me through the first time, and explaining where he wanted me to aim (actually he didn't care as long as it was on him). He was great about telling me how much he enjoyed it, and how good I made him feel; that helped a lot.
I hoped i answered your questions, and made you feel better. I really hope your partner gives it a try, I was hesitant at first, but they really enjoyed it.
Wed, 08/26/2009 - 09:37
#15
Urophilia and Urophagia ARE very much genuine pleasure fantasies
I for one chanced upon my relish quiet by chance.. but let me tell you.. its not like a choc cake..
She just wrinkled her nose and thought I had lost it.. and even the first time for me.. haha was funny..
A) coz her bladder was full for quiet some time, so it tasted a bit acrid
and
B) I literaly had a shower.. so my eyes.. delicate eyes really were in need of some washing later.
As for her 'joining' me and allowing me to take her liquids IN.. took a lot of subtle and symbolic talk..
In fact, even now she refuses most of the time unless very aroused and IN the moment.
For me, it worked a bit that I told, I want you ,my love, to be "IN" me mind ,body, soul..
and cajoled her to allow me take her sweat, tears... ummm yummy even eat her during menses.. and thus made her give me AALLL her liquids.
So if you want.. do a bit soft talk and do not harass or make GoldenS the sole issue..
I love it when she .. in her arousal, has on occasion on her own agreed to let me have it..
Especially since the societal norms, faith and upbringing have made us more silient on these things.
Hope you get yours soon.. all the best!!
Fri, 08/28/2009 - 16:27
#16
Ok, I'm back. We haven't engaged in any golden shower activities yet. Still trying to find the right time to ask. As some of you have suggested, I think the right time will be when she is entirely sexed up. She gets a little wild at those times. And with the right amount of wine will do pretty much anything once. I will keep you all informed. Thanks for the intelligent answers. Well almost. To the person who wrote the second post, piss off. 
Sat, 10/17/2009 - 14:33
#17
any progress?
its been months since i got mine...
ooh K.. she is... well we had a tiff so i have been left high and "dry" for long..
hope you got some positive moves
Sat, 11/07/2009 - 21:22
#18
An update of sorts. We went away for a weekend. While at dinner we had a nice bottle of wine. She was feeling very good. Back at the hotel, we really going at it and she told me she had to pee. I asked if I would watch. She didn't really want to do that, but let me anyway. So I got to watch her pee. It was very sexual. She was kind of laughing, but I think she enjoyed letting me watch. She knows about my fantasy. I was hoping she would just stand up and let it go on me, but that didn't happen. Oh well. Hopefully it will happen soon.
Sat, 11/14/2009 - 15:34
#19
Oneday me and my chick decided to make pee play. It occured in her place while her parents were absent.
Before that event we have seen a lot of moovies of that kind over laptop in my bmw. Thats why we know what
we'll do. She asked me what about a kitchen and i found it was great. We drank a bottle of martini dry and my
girl was okay but i needed more fuel coz i was a bit shameful. After all i drank a bottle of tequila and was quite
satisfied. Later i changed my mind and decided to watch a baseball match but my girlfriend begun to cry u promised
me a nice pee play! So she forced me to receive her golden shower. i felt nothing great coz urine smell was not so
delicious as somebody try to convince the beginners. After this party we never practiced golden shower.
Sun, 12/06/2009 - 19:22
#20
Let me tell you it was amazing ...he had me in the doggie style possition and was rubbing my G spot OMG! Never felt anything like it I felt my cum squirting
out it was amazing and it turned him on so much..I then got on top of him squating above him slowing to slide him in i started to pee just a little and he came instantly
he said he didnt know what i was doing he just felt a warm feeling and I was squeezing the head of him with my you know ....so do what you want it's your spouse and
its fun to keep your heart pounding wanting more ......when his knees are shaking and he has a hard time standing ....u know u have done your job...
Good luck and enjoy your husband or wife ....Happy love making !
Tue, 02/09/2010 - 00:07
#21
me and my wife give and recieve golden showers regularly in the shower, she was shy at first but we both love it, i dont enjoy the smell but the shower cleans it up nicely, occasionally she pees on my penis as lube for anal, just dont start out in the face or mouth, lead up to it in small steps
Wed, 02/17/2010 - 03:24
#22
Yes it was great!! she would pee on me then i jack off. if it dosen't hurt try it you'll like it
Fri, 02/19/2010 - 01:04
#23
you guys are so funny im 17 and pissing on each other...thats something else..what u want ur wife to do is squirt on u...its not pee its just liquid...when u fuck ur wife really good in a certain way sometimes she cant control her self and liquid just comes out its clear and looks like pee but its not...maybe thats what u want instead of pure urine
Fri, 02/19/2010 - 12:41
#24
you guys are so funny im 17 and pissing on each other...thats something else..what u want ur wife to do is squirt on u...its not pee its just liquid...when u fuck ur wife really good in a certain way sometimes she cant control her self and liquid just comes out its clear and looks like pee but its not...maybe thats what u want instead of pure urine
What you're talking about is female ejaculation which, as you say, is completely different. But the people in this thread actually are referring to urinating on each other, which, when done between consenting adults in a safe environment, is a perfectly healthy sexual activity to engage in, although clearly not accepted by mainstream culture.
Sun, 02/21/2010 - 23:00
#25
i would let it happen only in the shower o.0, good way to clean out athletes foot :P
Sun, 03/14/2010 - 22:51
#26
it took years of gentle discussion for me now I get a shower every couple of months
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that is only psychological illness or abnormality. there is a very less percentage of such people, but if u think real hard you can track it back relating to a few number of events in your child hood, which gave you this odd attachment with the urine smell. but one things for sure! this in not normal, and try coming out of it. i bet you might have tried it with your own urine in private, but its dangerous and highly unhealthy.