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Female ejaculation or urinal incontience?
Wed, 12/24/2008 - 04:51
I'm 21 and have been have clitorial orgasms for about 3 years by masturbation and watching porn. I found that this is the only way i have been able to come so far.
I'm in a relationship now and am sexually active, i have read in your forum about positions to stimulate the gspot, (woman on top rocking back and forward and doggy style) I have tried both but we tend to chop and change often.
My main issue is that everytime it seems to feel excellent and like my gspot is being stimulated, especially when i'm ontop rocking my hips back and forward i get a big rush of fluid coming out of my vagina and if i keep going more and more comes out. At this point i haven't orgasmed but i'm getting fluid, some people have suggested to me that it is ejaculate but i'm not sure if it's possible to ejaculate without orgasming. The only thing is that there is a real lot of it and even if i put a towel down a flood the bed! also it smells like urine and has a very faint yellow colour, i go to the toilet before sex also but sometimes i try to go again after sex and nothing comes out which makes me think that it may be urine.
It feels amazing and i think that if i kept going i might come, but i've stopped having sex in that positon now because i feel self conscious, my boyfriend doesn't mind but if it is urine i don't want to continue.
Is it possible that his penis is pressing on my urethra in ths position and making me pee or is it ejaculate?
I have had urinary reflux as a child and had operations to correct it when i was 7, my left kidney was left slightly damaged and a small amount of urine is always retained in my bladder after urinating because of this, not sure if this has any impact just thought i'd mention it.
Any help would be great, if i'm capable of ejaculating and orgasming like this i would like to continue.
Thank-you.
Thu, 04/09/2009 - 02:53
#2
I can completely relate - I've had two orgasms in my entire life and both were from being on top rocking back and forth.
I have a magic wand and use that to masturbate but the feeling is so fantastic I also get the rush and then a load of liquid - it does have the faint 'pee' smell and grosses me out, and I can't orgasm as I'm so bothered by it all. Any advice on relaxing and figuring out how to 'do it'....would love to know.
Wed, 04/15/2009 - 22:16
#3
Yo just drink more water and it'll smell ok whether It's pee or ejaculate. in the end it won't make a difference. As long as It's safe and feels good just let yourself go! or u can just live ur whole life never knowing Wut u mite be missing...
Sat, 06/20/2009 - 05:19
#4
ok i have the same problem, and it makes me hold back so much because im afraid its urine. People on here keep saying that just go for it and that it doesnt matter if its urine of ejaculate, but i just can't do it. im too scared that if i do end up finding out that its urine that my boyfriend will think im gross. if theres someone who knows for sure what they are talking ab plz help
Sat, 06/20/2009 - 23:30
#5
It's not urine. It comes from the female prostate which is analogous to the male prostate. Female ejaculation has been chemically analysed and shown to contain PSA, prostate-specific antigen which is also produced by the male prostate. Read more on the female ejaculation page. In one experiment, a woman dyed her urine blue, but her ejaculate was still colourless:
From http://www.fiawol.demon.co.uk/FAC/femejac.htm :
Analysis carried out by Whipple and Perry in the early 1980s established substantially higher levels of prostate-specific antigen and glucose, and substantially lower levels of creatinine and urea, in samples of ejaculatory fluid than in samples of urine from the same women.
...a student of Edwin Belzer took a drug to dye her urine bright blue, and found that whilst her urine became strongly coloured as expected, the fluids she ejaculated during masturbation showed only a slight blue tinge or no colour at all
It's possible to have a female ejaculation and *not* have an orgasm. Just like in the male they are separate processes, although much of the time they happen together.
The critical piece of information to get across is that you have to relax your PC muscle and keep it relaxed. Don't tense up when you get the pee feeling. Just let it out and let the magic happen.
His penis pressing on your urethra is not causing any urine to be released. What happens is that when your G-spot is stimulated (through sex or by thumb / fingers / sex toy) the female prostate becomes engorged with blood (just like a penile erection). The tissues swell and cause the bladder sphincter muscle to contract, thus shutting off the path from the bladder.
So no pee.
So put a towel or two down. Relax your PC muscle and just let it flow when it wants to flow. Have a chat with your partner beforehand and point him in the direction of some information about female ejaculation. Most guys are more than happy to explore new sex ideas and it's a great psychological boost for them to see you writhing in pleasure.
There is a great book called Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot by Deborah Sundahl - it's the bible for squirting and is a must read for every sexually active woman and man. Highly, highly recommended.
Thu, 06/25/2009 - 03:20
#6
Dear Anon and eeek,
PLEASE, enjoy yourselves and don't be turned off by the fear that it's pee. It's probably not, but try not to be embarrassed even if it were. Your guy(s) may even be turned on by your peeing, ESPECIALLY if you do it because you are really turned on! One of the two times I was MOST turned on during eleven years with my wife was when she was on top and peed while she was rocking on me. I LOVED it, and wanted repeat performances, but despite assuring and reassuring her and asking, she was embarrassed, and never did it again. We are divorced now, and that's certainly not the reason, but the inability to trust absolute intimacy is a factor. Warm (!) wishes. :-)
Wed, 07/08/2009 - 05:04
#7
I have the same squirting thing here too. But only one man in my life was able to make me squirt...well actually "Flow".
(Don't like ya'll saying "Pee" cause it's not that whatsoever.) After 20 years my ol sweety and I hooked back up, heh heh heh...and Let it FLOW!!
He's MAJORLY Turned ON by that, it totally turns up the heat index factor tri-fold!!!
Yep I went through the embarressement factor also, but I was assurred by him what a turn on that is to him, it's perfectly natural yet how rare that is for a gal to totally gush like some of us do.
Yep, I'm a proud 2 or 3 towel girl gusher!!!
Tee hee hee!!! ;>D
Let it FLOW Baby and ENJOY the SLICK N SLIDE Sensations afterwards... Oh YEAH!!!
Sun, 08/09/2009 - 04:16
#8
OH my gosh!!!
I am so glad I found this. When it first happened to me I felt so sorry for my husband. I was confused though because it didnt feel like it feels when I urine! I had the urge to pee during sex and let it go, and then I ejaculated, but I thought I had peed. Now that I know this, I feel much better!
Tue, 08/25/2009 - 03:55
#9
Omg
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if it's urine it'll smell...bad. But if it's clear and oderless it's ejaculate. Dont worry about it too much, if it feels good roll with it